I turned the grand ol’ age of 25 at the end of January and previous followers of this blog might remember my little to-do list before I blew the candles out on my cake.
At the halfway point, I’d managed to tick off quite a few of them and I’m glad to say that I’ve done a lot more since, and probably outside of what I set out to do when I first created this list. Yeah I still haven’t been to Paris (wah) but the 365 days leading up to another mile stone birthday were pretty darn good…
- Visit Paris – TO DO!!! THIS YEAR!!!
Take on another sporting challenge-Last year’s 5k has now turned into a Half Marathon… eek.
- Camp at a music festival- Festival season is long gone.
Get more work publishedI’ve been writing my gig panel for a year now, still getting in reviews and writing online.
Visit somewhere in the UK I’ve never been– Had a nice little jolly around the South-West in October, so much so that it’s my retirement destination. Try different foods (Big step for a fussy-eater!)Hmm…yeah, sort of. I likes what I like. Cook dinner for my family-Erm…I’ve bought a 30 Minute Meals cookbook, that’s a start right?
- Finish a TV boxset- On the last few episodes of Breaking Bad. I know I suck at life.
Start saving for the futureOn my way! Have two mad nights out in a row or go out on a school-night (Deal with the aftermath without complaint)Done on a couple of occasions (*cough* Christmas *cough*). I’ve only just started to drink white wine again. Experiment more with my personal style (Note to self: You can’t live in floral dresses forever)Yup but I can’t pull off culottes. Host a charity event-We’re a charitable bunch in my office. Create a collage/photo album of “My Life 18-25″-Needs an update. Move forward in my careerBIG SMILEY FACE. Learn a new skill or take up a short course-You never stop learning.
- Stop worrying incessantly about EVERYTHING! Just STOP.- Well…I wouldn’t be me, if I didn’t.
Develop and be consistent with my blogI promiiiiiiiiise.
- Face my fear of public speaking- I don’t think I ever will, if I can help it.
- Buy a newer car- I still have Bella, my precious.
Visit more of London’s landmarksOf course.
Learn when to say “NO.” You can’t always be Super Girl Getting better at this. Be a bit more impulsiveI’ve learned to take a back seat with plans too (go me)
- Start writing short stories again – One day…
Tick more bands off my Live Gig listForever the music lover.
Be happy with where I am in life and enjoy living in the moment-Overall, yes, I’ve tried to stop getting too far ahead of myself, stop worrying about where other people are in their lives and concentrate on the here and now. Deep.
Y’know what? This list wasn’t ever really in the back of my mind throughout 2014 and I never sat there and thought to myself ‘Quick, I must do this before I’m 25 otherwise I fail at life.’ It was a fun thing to do and to look back on I guess.
Life isn’t a to-do list, it isn’t a series of tick boxes with JOB, HOUSE, MARRIAGE, KIDS on it. It’s about doing what you set out to achieve individually, whether that be working towards a promotion, taking up a post-grad course and even things like having some more ‘me’ time or visiting a place you’ve always wanted to go to.
I think with even more so with social media now, we’re into the concept of ‘Keeping up with the Joneses,’ in the sense we get FOMO and life-envy. For most people, social media is like an Instagram filter of their lives, we’re only seeing what we want everybody else to see. And that’s fine, why wouldn’t you want everyone to think your life is amaaaaazing?
Just take everything with a pinch of salt and think about everything you have that makes YOU happy the next time you see something that makes you go ‘Oh, why can’t that be me?’ Why would you want a regram of somebody else’s life when you have the option of your own, no matter how tough it can be at times.